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EVERYONE IS ARGUING!

Of course we are. There’s 7 billion people across this glorious speck in the universe. We’re not going to agree. Shit, with all the slanted news, the odds are stacked completely against us…unless you’re like most people and have a personal jet to travel and observe for yourself.

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Now that you’ve accepted that, together we can understand how to argue an opinion without being an asshole or an idiot. While the debate can be intense, there are only a few simple steps to follow to make sure you leave the debate satisfied you made your point and you’ve thought critically of what your opponent had to say (yes that is important too).

  1. Have An Argument– You don’t know how many times I’ve read an opinion so far-fetched, it was obvious a 747 could clear the space between the person’s head and the moral of the story.
  1. Do Some Research It’s not necessary to spend endless hours outlining studies. But basing your argument on one story that you just happen to scroll pass and agreed with the headline is possibly the laziest thing a person could do…and we’re either sitting at a computer just clicking, or sitting somewhere more comfortable just swiping. Confirm a few things before typing. Make sure the current event isn’t tied to decades of things you didn’t consider…or common sense. I say this knowing if you take my advice, I’m sacrificing some of my online humor.
  1. Accept When A Point Has Been Proven Wrong  It becomes funny when you keep insisting the trickle-down effect worked.
  1. Respond To The Argument  Not what you think will distract people from your dwindling points.
  1. If You Are Going To Use Sarcasm, Be Good At It  Nothing is more satisfying than getting a sarcastic response that you can tear into pieces in 3 three sentences…You know what? Ignore this, I’m not sacrificing my hobby.
  1. Be An Adult  The world will never completely agree with each other so don’t end the debate making the opponent feel like you ran and cried into the arms of your confidant. Even if the argument becomes intense with emotions writhing, do your best to calm the situation and actually consider their side before ending the debate. Doing that will allow you to confirm how thoughtless your opponent was after you calmed down leaving you less likely feel like maybe you missed something. Your opponent will have had no choice but to at least consider your side since you did your research on both the specifics and the broad range of the issue. Your opponent’s choice whether to use critical thinking skills is why society is crying.
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5 thoughts on “How Not To Waste A Good Debate

  1. I get really frustrated with Internet debates (well even just debates in general) because people either 1) get super emotional and mike no real sense. They get into their feelings and when you dissect what they’re saying with the scalpel of logic, they fall back on emotion and what “feels” right without acknowledging the merits of the other side. They only want to believe what validates what they already believe to be true. (Confirmation Bias). 2) They refuse to admit when they’re wrong…or at least admit what you have right. It’s rare for people to actually have real discourse; analyzing the various aspects of one or another issue and letting their views evolve.

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    • It really is frustrating to debate on internet since everyone has to have a say. I am hoping more and more people will actually start taking debates on serious topics…seriously. I read through some of these threads and the gap between those who just complain and those who make a conscious effort hear other sides while explaining theirs is dangerously wide. I just hope this post will be shared enough for people to take some advice…and laugh. Thanks for the comment and please share!

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